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In Love - or About To Divorce?

Briony wrote:

This guy has a "baby momma" who he is still technically married to. They live in the same house, have a son together already, and are expecting another baby in november. They are recently split, and he's been dealing with some ptsd from the military and a huge wave of betrayal from pretty much his whole life that he just learned about that came from his own parents.

He says he loves her dearly still, spends time almost every day with her, sleeps with her almost every night, he's getting snipped because he doesn't want kids with anyone else but her, they work together(his doing, he got her the job), and they both have herpes because she got raped and he decided to share in her pain that way.

He claims he might try to date again later on, but anyone he finds will have to deal with him living with her, coming second to her and their children, and will have to be ok with him having herpes, ptsd, mommy and daddy issues, that he works with her, and that he still loves her no matter what and will always be there for her.

She also loves him unconditionally and has always been there for him, as well. Does it sound like it's really over between them as a couple, or is he just going through a really bad patch and will stay with her after he gets through it?

Dear Briony,

Forgive me, but I have a suspicion you come from another planet.

Probably best to start with the obvious stuff ...

You say they have split, but offer no detail; you also say he a number of issues to work through, which may (or may not) have contributed to the split.

You also report:

  1. He says he loves her dearly
  2. spends time almost every day with her
  3. sleeps with her almost every night
  4. they work together
  5. he decided to share in her pain
  6. he still loves her no matter what
  7. She loves him unconditionally
  8. She has always been there for him
  9. They live in the same house
  10. They have a son together
  11. They are expecting another baby in november
  12. he's getting snipped because he doesn't want kids with anyone else but her

You ask if it sound like it's really over between them as a couple.

The long answer is that it's possible, but you offer zero evidence to support that - and twelve good reasons why it's probably not over.

The short answer is No.

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