Advicemeant Archive 2008Trouble
at Work - No-one owes you a living, and it's a tough old world ... Sister
Out of Control - You are both adults; her behviour is none of your business
... Married Bachelor Boy?
- Neither of you knew exactly what he would be faced with that evening ... The
Impossible Dream - He used you pretty much from the beginning, and was
never ... Have I Lost Him? -
start sorting out your issues so that future relationships don't fail too ... Have
I Been Punished Enough? - You have already been punished more than most
cheats ... Career Crossroads
- When all's said and done, my advice is to go with your heart, but ... Taking
a break to get divorced - It certainly won't work if you are getting
separation anxiety ... Spying
on a spiteful colleague - She has a perfect right to be as mean-minded
as she ... My husband is alcoholic
- and doesn't know it - Trouble is, his alcoholism is your problem, so
far as he's concerned ... I fell
in love with my best friend - It's not love. Love takes two. It may be
that you are simply lonely ... My
husband is alcoholic - and doesn't know it - Trouble is, his alcoholism
is your problem, so far as he's concerned He
won't get married! - From his point of view, you are not a lot different
to a wife, and mother of his children ... My
friend won't speak to me - I don't think she was being unfair, or you
... Is there such thing as inner peace?
- None of us are perfect; but we all need to ... I'm
helpless and I'm so down - If you have truly learned your lesson, then
you know ... In love with my girlfriend's male
cousin - I'm guessing that it's not advice you need, but courage ... In-law
Hell Before Marriage - What you have to realise is that nothing will change
- ever - unless you make it change ... How
to get husband to see my side - If it wasn't the father-in-law, it would
be something else (and probably is) ... Enhancing
her career? - How will this affect you, the children and the marriage?
... Respecting decisions - Where do
you get off with this assumption that your beliefs are 'better' ... Six
Months of Marriage ... and it's falling apart - You need to be clear in
your mind about what's happening, before ... After
6 years I'm in love with his best friend - Only you can find a way through
this swamp ... Gambling husband, Alzheimers
mother - If you decide to keep him around, you need to change the rules
... Ex's Relationship is Doomed - So
her relationship is probably doomed ... so what? ... Love?
Maybe ... But No Sex - Nothing will change unless you both want to change
it ... What Becomes of the Broken Hearted
- You (sensibly) have decided not to be a "crazy ex" ... "Just
Friends" ?? - He knows you are living a lie, and therefore vulnerable
... I'm losing my friends - What kind
of person are you, and why are ... I Want To
Be Her Girlfriend - Don't get sidetracked into the definition of 'girlfriend'
... Orthodox background preventing me from
telling her - some things cannot be left to body language ... I
Was Unfaithful To My Wife - If you are sure you want the marriage to last
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