Did I Blow The Friendship?
I have a HUGE problem!
I am attending a new school this year and I met a guy I really like. We became
fast friends. I want to have a relationship with him and sometimes it feels like
he wants that with me as well. I just don't know whether its me telling myself
what I want to hear or is there something there.
All this is irrelavant
compared to my HUGER problem. On a whim after having a great conversation, I asked
him out by email later that night. His account showed that he had been on but
late enough that he would have gotten my note. He didn't respond and I'm terrified
I just ruined a perfectly awesome friendship. What do I tell him?
Tell him "Hey, it's no big deal - didn't mean to be pushy"
long as you make it light, and don't make a big deal, then it isn't a big deal.
Don't try to force an answer out of him; you asked, now the ball is in his court.
And let's face it, if the friendship can't take it, it wasn't as
strong as you thought. Life goes on ...