Is She Flirting ... Or Is This For Real?
play soccer and Im in trouble with one of the girls in my team. I dont
know whether she is flirting with me or not.
It started after she helped
me out during practice, told me to go ahead and play, and not just walk!.
She knew I had lost a friend at the time. Then, she helped me for soccer telling
me who to pass the ball to, where to run, stuff like that.
It was weird
because I had never talked to that girl before as we are on two separate teams
in the same club. She is in the better team. At the time I had really appreciated
her help. I still do. Since then, things have been weird. She looks at me strange.
I do the same because I dont know whats going on. I dont want
to accuse her of anything even though I know she is homosexual.
a party, I had put my drink on the table. She came to the table to serve herself,
and placed her body right in front of my drink. The only way I could take it was
by putting my hand right by her sex. Or else, she stays in front of the doorway
when she knows I need to go through. Then, she says Go ahead, youre
right, why dont you bump into me while your at it? This makes me think
she is flirting with me. But during other times, she comes right in front of me
and says it doesnt smell good, and laughs with her friends. Otherwise, she
fowls me during soccer and says shes pleased of so doing.
avoiding me all the time. This confuses me a lot. I really dont know what
is going on. Is she flirting with me or am I just overreacting? How do I respond?
If shes not, I dont want to make a mess in the team by accusing her
wrongly. And if she is, I dont especially want my team mates knowing that
either, especially that her girlfriend is in the team.
do you ask?
If you are interested in her, then you know that she wants to be
friends, maybe more, so why not talk to her?
If you are not particularly interested,
why does a bit of flirting upset you?
And if you don't like her, just ask her
to leave you alone.
Point is, if you don't know what YOU want, neither does
she. Whatever she wants, she can't be specific, because she's getting nothing
back from you.
She's flirting, because that's a safe way to let you know she's
interested - in what, that's for you to find out.
Be nice; give the poor girl
a hint, why don't you?