Sex Problems - In my head?
masturbate and get eroused seeing woman. I am 21 years old male and never had
sex before. I tried to have sex with a girl whom i know. But once we are together
i was unable to get erection seeing her naked. After some time i got erection
but could not hold it for more time and had to come out even before inserting
my penis into her.
Just because it is first time I was little worried
Is it in my head or I am not physicall fit.
Most likely it's an anxiety thing. You might find it easier to build up
gently to sex - spend more time on the relationship, and the sex may take care
of itself. And your partner is more likely to be supportive and sympathetic.
are treating sex as a purely physical thing between two people - that's masturbation.
Try to get your head around the quaint idea of an act of love between two human
beings; two people, not a penis and a vagina.
If problems continue, then get
checked out - but from your story, a physical problem is very unlikely.
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