Advicemeant Archive 2007The 33-year-old
Virgin - You've learned by now that there is no magic wand ... I
can't stand his best friend - keep it civil, keep it brief, and don't
pretend ... I can't hug people - But
if you really feel the need to force physical contact .... I
have a crush on my friend - I suspect they are taking it in turns to wind
you up ... He Won't Marry Me (2) -
Just take the lead, diary in hand ... He Won't
Marry Me (1) - If you want to challenge him (and you do) ... Six
years, and going nowhere - There's no doubt that he's cheated more .... I
have a crush on my friend - Worry less about what people say ... Is
he hinting at marriage? - You cannot plan your life on fantasy ... Friend's
husband is using our computer to cheat - Don't worry; this guy sounds
so sublimely stupid ... Did I Blow The Friendship?
- Don't try to force an answer out of him ... Really
Demanding Friend? - Tell him to drop dead, and if he argues .... Friend's
Dad Fondles Me - I'm sure you should be as honest as the situation allows
... Obsessed With Dead Friendship -
stop trying to claim it's anything else ... Cold
Feet or Is Something Really Wrong? - on the issue that counts, you know
the answer ... Sister in-law Going For My Parents'
Money - It's just a matter of three-way honesty ... Reconcilation
with abusive husband? - so long as you never forget your daughter's needs
... Help Me Decode This Guy - Stop
playing mind games and stop teasing ... Fight
Happens and I'm Blamed! - I'm not going to get deep in the entrails of
a drunken fight ... My Controlling Wife
- you should have acted long before now, shouldn't you? My
Boyfriend's Secret - You know him, you know yourself. Do you trust him?
Does he trust you? Commitment Issues
- This really isn't about his age, or ex - it's about him ... Marriage
about to fall apart - You do not need to
let him treat you like dirt, or let him bully you ... She
Won't Leave Her Husband - You always have the choice; you can simply walk
away ... Mixed Religion Relationship
- You are way too old to elope - and way too old to ... Husband
Defrauding Insurance - Stop making threats unless you are prepared to
carry them out ... Daughter Wasting
Her Love - The more you work against him, the more loyal she is to him ...
Torn Between Two Lovers? - This
guy wouldn't know love if it was spooned into his mouth ... Why
Won't He Marry Me? - Don't manipulate him
to try and deal with your personal issues ... In-laws
are unreasonable and insane! - But if you and your wife cannot agree you have
two choices ... Is She Flirting ...
Or Is This For Real? - Point is, if you don't know what YOU want, neither
does she ... Soulmate Doesn't Love
Me Any More - Even if there was a chance of reconciliation (there isn't) ... Could
he be cheating? - are you untrusting, are you jealous, is it your problem?
... My mom controls my life and son
- Stop obsessing about your mom and your previous mistakes ... How
long is an in-laws visit? - Most men would accept their in-laws for 7 minutes
... Family won't apologise!
- There's no law that says you have to mix with family ... I
want my life back - You've chosen a pathetic
boyfriend, and chosen to wallow in self pity ... Why
does he always go back to Porn? - Because he likes it, and knows you won't
stop him ... Why can't I leave this
man? - You do not want to accept your relationship has failed ... Depressed
and happy that way - You know by now that he's not likely to change ... Suffering
from Sobriety - changing who you are in order to 'fit in' is never a wise
move ... I left him - but I love him
- I hope, for your sake, as well as his, that he doesn't fall for your soft soap
... Old Friend May Steal My Thunder
- The good news is that you are 100% aware this is your problem ... I
just can’t seem to open up - What's killing you is not knowing if she'll
say yes or not ... I Tricked Him
- He Dumped Me - But if you play those games, you'll soon have no friends
at all ... How can we overcome confusion?
- If you cannot see your hand in front of your face, you'll face a lonely life
... Depressed In Nursing School -
Hang in there until you get registered ... Worth
saving the friendship? - You need to decide what's important to you ... Should
I believe my husband? - How do you feel about losing him? ... Marriage
on the Rocks - I'm actually a little unclear
why you married him ... Unprotected
Sex - It's entirely up to her, and no amount of harassment ... Help
teen and dad relationship - It is important to try and see his side. Because
if you are right ... I wish I felt as happy
and as strong as I seem - You'll get nowhere in life if you do not take
risks ... Feeling left out and confused
- Maybe you don't have quite as much in common ... Sex
Problems - In my head? - You might find it easier to build up gently ... Felony
conviction and the future - Why wouldn't you get another job? Recovering
alcoholic problems - Sometimes it is just too late ... I've
had a crush for three years - Stop obsessing about a dream, and do something
... Sixteen Years of Abuse -
You've started to fight back against this monster ... | 
