Drugs, Lies, Porn - But No Sex

Layla wrote:

Hello,

I don't know if your answer this kind of question. But it is about my husbands addiction and porn. We don't have sex. I waited till we got married and we still don't have sex.

I can't trust him because of the lying when I ask him to be honest. When he is and I ask him about the other things. I don't know how to handle it. All I want him to do is admit that he is in denial and that he has a problem. So that we could get help.

When he does I don't know how to handle that either. Can you help me with this one. I found your web site On lying husbands. I hope I can find it again.

Confused and desperate.

Dear Layla

It isn't a marriage, is it? You are sharing your life with a stranger. You need to ask yourself if you want this for the next 50 years (Of course not!).

And you need to ask yourself why you married him in the first place. (Surely he wasn't a total stranger?).

You have to get out. But I don't know if you need a counsellor - or a lawyer. Maybe both. But you need to make some hard decisions, fast.