He's Separated from His Wife
recently met a man who is seperated from his wife, they have a six month old son.
I tried to avoid getting serious, because his divorce isn't final and he is just
moving to the area.
About four weeks ago he asked if we could be "official",
and basically not see other people; I agreed. Normally he will refer to her as
"The B***h" & talk crap about her, but lately he's been kind of
distant, and calling her by her name.
She has even stayed the night twice
with the baby! When I ask if they are getting back together he says no not right
now that they are just trying to get along for the baby. Should I try to break
away from this relationship, before I end up hurt or should I stick around and
see what happens? please help me!
been hurt, and you'll be hurt again. This is not going to work, and you've always
He is simply using you. Not necessarily on purpose, but using you
none the less. For sex.
Their split was very recent, and with the baby, too,
there's absolutely no way he's got over her - or will for a long time. In the
early days, when his hate was strong, he needed out, and probably could not imagine
ever speaking to her again, let alone planning a future. Or sleeping with her.
As you've seen, things change. You could probably remain a 'bit on the side',
but your relationship is forever marked by being the rebound, not a 'proper' relationship.
Do what you should have done in the first place - run.