Want to visit my ex
My drama began when I cheated on my boyfriend. We had been together
for almost three years and I was at a point in my life where I felt
like I needed to meet other people. He was my first "real"
boyfriend and we had met when I was 14. I knew that I loved him but
I just needed a change.
I couldn't live with the guilt so I ended up telling him. He obviously
took the news really bad. He told me he never wanted to talk again
or hear my voice. So I didn't call him at all. My heart was broken
and I could not believe what I had done.
He called me a few days later and told me that he was gonna move
to California with his sister and he had forgiven me. He said that
he could not live without me and he understands why I made that mistake
he said he was willing to work things out with me and he could not
bear the fact of me being with anyone else but him. He had asked me
to go with him to California but I couldn't ... I was about to start
college and it was at the spur of the moment in which he had asked
Now I miss him so much that he's gone. Things at home have gotten
really bad and I really don't want to live here any more. He recently
bought me a ticket to go see him in four days and my mom doesn't know
yet ... how do I tell her and when???
HELP !! I really love him and miss him a lot. It's not like I'm gonna
live with him I'm just gonna see him and my parents are really overprotective.
You lost a boyfriend through cheating and lying, and now you are
still doing it. I don't think your parents are overprotective - I
think they just don't trust you.
If you want to go through life lying and cheating, and never seeing
that's a problem, I suspect it's going to be a pretty unpleasant life.
The trick is not to feel sorry for yourself when the truth comes
out ... the trick is to avoid the situation by being honest.
Rocket science it ain't.