He Won't Say I Love You
I'm an 18 year old girl on
my way to college. But I have a huge problem.
I have a boyfriend whose 21
and I care for him deeply. But he's not the problem, it's if he loves me or not
He does many things for me that are special. This includes helping
my mother and sister when they need help and even making sure I'm ok when I have
a problem. He's always there for me whenever I need him and I see him every day.
He expresses how he feels towards me but he has never said I love you and
we have been dating for over a year. It seems as though he doesn't want to get
hurt because I'm going away to school and all. But I say if he can't trust me
now then it won't work in school.
Please Anon help me. I just want to know
if I'm loved!
You've not given me nearly enough to know
him - if you cannot tell after a year, how can I after 100 words?
he cares for you, he's a good friend. If that's not enough, it may be safer to
assume he does not love you.
But consider that many men have trouble with the
'L' word, and you'd be pretty shallow to throw a man away for failing to read
Also consider he may be trying to protect you from hurt, not himself.
he may feel it better for you to have the freedom to go - and then decide whether
or not to come back to him.
I don't know. But you do.