My husband has just admitted to
having a porn addiction for the majority of our marriage. I feel extremely hurt
and confused right now.
He has a 'favorite girl' that he masturbates to
and it feels like cheating. The pain is almost physical and unbearable at times.
Mostly because of the fact I hate his secret live and hurt also because I feel
like this is somehow my fault or that I am overeacting.
Through all the
times in our marriage like the birth of our two children and other special times...they
all seem somehow 'tainted'. I love being married but, I fully wasn't expecting
How do I cope? He is going to his first conselling session today.
I just don't know what I can or should do or feel. Just feeling so confused. and
a bit insecure.
I can empathise with
your pain and confusion.
As you will have seen by searching here, this addiction
is not rare - but at least in your case, your husband recognises that there is
There is hope.
For the moment, if you want to make the marriage
work again, stick with it - give him a chance and see what happens next.
you might consider joint counselling later on.