But I don't want to get married
I have been with my boyfriend 4 years, I'm engaged as this is what I wanted at
the beginning but his family hate me and we have had alot of ups and downs. We
have also had a large amount of times where I hardly see him because hes been
at uni although hes just finished and we have spent more time together and its
been really nice.
But he wants me to marry him one day and I really don't
want to because I feel I have had a maried life and I found it boring, I have
had some family problems also where I have not had much freedom too. Also I don't
like the idea of having his family as my inlaws and he says he doesn't see the
point of us being together if we wont marry one day. I really also don't have
confidence and on your wedding day its about 'you' I will be too embarrassed.
dont know what to do.
Yes you do. Call it off. No-ones
forcing you to marry, and while you haven't even considered this, marriage is
not about the wedding day, it's about the years and years and years that come
You don't want it? Fine. Grow up; Tell him, and Move on.
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