He hits, He lies, He's unfaithful
Davina wrote:
I have been dating my boyfriend for four years already and have a baby
who is only nine months.
In the past I have found phone numbers of girls on his cell phone or
the cell phone bill. I’ve called these girls and we’ve talked.
When I confront him about something he always turns things around and
makes me feel guilty or like it is always my fault.
We live together and tells me why I don’t trust him if he’s
always with me. I do trust him but I just think I’m too jealous.
I found this phone number and I called it and a girl answered when I confronted
him he got all offensive and started a big argument. He ended up telling
me it was a girl from his work and she called him to get work hours. So
I let it slide then I found a text message asking him if he could pick
her up. I didn’t mention anything but once we got mad I started telling
him everything and he said that who cares if he gave her a ride it was
just a friend from work and that why do I think that way blah blah blah..
So that girl keeps calling once in a while, which is at least 1 a week
and I am super angry and jealous now..
Yesterday that I confronted him we got into an argument and he ended
calling me fat bitch and ugly and all those nasty names I am not skinny
but not fat either. I’m 125 pounds and I’m 20 years old. The
worst part is that he ended up hitting me yesterday and pulling my hair
it was like he had the devil I started crying devasted.. I feel bad because
a lot of girls in my family don’t have their guy and I know they
will talk bad about my like and everything.
I feel I can’t live without him I don’t know what to do I haven’t
been sleeping because I’m hurting and crying.. He left the house
yesterday and went back home he said he doesn’t want to hear anything
about me or the baby. I want him to be part of his babys life. I need
help I can’t live like this anymore and I know I can’t do it
alone. I cry because my baby will not have a father. Please help me I
don’t know what to do…
Dear Davina
He's a shit.
You know he's a shit
He knows he's a shit
Everyone else knows he's a shit.
You think your baby needs a shit for a father?
You think you need a man who beats up on you?
He's a shit.
Change the locks.
If he comes near, call the police.
He's a shit.
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