Advicemeant Archive 2005

Should I Have That Baby? - Having a baby is a poor way to keep a bad man ...

Last night he threw stuff - Your priority has to be to protect your daughter

She found my porn - She has a right to be angry, doesn't she?

Fiancé's mother hates me - Do you really want this c*** for the rest of your life?

Want to visit my ex - You lost a boyfriend through cheating and lying, and now you ...

Husband is a Drug Addict - If he believes he has done it all after a couple of weeks ...

Is this straight / gay love? - You have clearly stepped way beyond friendship ...

In Love With Ex's Friend - The choices are horribly simple - be honest, or ...

This Story Will Knock Your Socks Off - You could force him to choose (It's Them Or Me") ...

Lying Husband - Part 94 - There is one method than can work, even without his knowledge ...

Was Dumping Him A Mistake? - What stands out in your story, is that at no point could you ever ...

Dating Someone going through a divorce - He has the "excuse" that he's stressed out by the divorce ...

Dating a separated man with young kids - Be clear, he's not using you - he's simply doing his best to ...

Is my marriage over? - Don't think that moving home will solve anything; it won't. There are bars and buddies everywhere ...

Male virgin - By all means think about sex (most men do, constantly) but spend a little time and effort ...

He Won't Say I Love You - It's obvious he cares for you, he's a good friend. If that's not enough ...

Stood up in Detroit - I suspect that this 'chance' meeting allowed him to think he could use you ...

Porn addiction - This addiction is not rare - but at least in your case, your husband recognises that there is a problem ...

Love? Infatuation? Obsession? - Once you stop blubbing ...

Basketcase husband addicted to porn and computer games and I don't know what to do? - Yes you do ...

I Don't Want to Date Separated Men - And you know why ...

I can't get my man to marry me - No man will be forced into marriage ...

Will a baby bring us back together? - No. Don't be silly.

Love fell apart ... - Stop thinking of him as a jerk ...

Boyfriend prefers prostitutes - Do you want to carry on with this ...

But I don't want to get married - Marriage is not about the wedding ...

He's Divorced, But Not Quite - If you are happy to have no contact ...

He Didn't Call For 7 Months - Wake up and smell the cookies ...

When Friendship Met Hormones - I see three possibilities ...

Parents Cutting Us Out - If you are happy to have no contact ...

He hits, He lies, He's unfaithful - Change the locks ...

Split up ... but we still care - Once a doormat ...

Unwanted Hair - The two most likely reasons ...

In Laws at War - It's not my decision - or yours ...

I can't trust him - You can't trust him. You never will ...

Divorced and Backing Off - Consider his daughters ...

Infatuated with older men - It's not age that's the issue ...

Angry at my best friend - She's entitled to choose her ...

I'm scared to leave him - There's always help for children ...

Secretly in love but confused - There's only one thing ...

Rocky but still want to marry - Neither marriage nor babies ...

If you could save their marriage - What's to save? ...

Love Out of the Window? - You both seem obsessed with ...

What Is A Friend? - Don't just look at the slimeballs ...

Eventually, The Truth Will Out - You've been through a lot ...

Haunted By Her Ex - You cannot deal with this ...

Desperate to save him from beer - If he recognises a problem ...

Paranoid About Sex - Plenty of people have spent years ...

Is honesty the best policy? - But the blame culture never got ...

Plagiarism or What? - I suspect that underneath all this ...

How To Retaliate To A Diss - You are playing the wrong game ...

I get jealous and abusive - She is being remarkably patient ...

Can't trust him after lies - He's a liar. So don't believe him ...

How Can I Trust Him? - I am not saying he's right ...