Does my boyfriend love me?

Bernice wrote:

I have dated my guy for six years now but still I feel that he does not love me as when we first started dating six years ago, I found out that he had a one night stand then after we became engaged I used to find numbers of call girls in the apartment when I asked him about it he said that he did not use the numbers to call them ... When we go out I find him stare at other young girls without taking his gaze off, I feel that he is cheating behing my back.

I even know that he is collecting tapes and this makes me feel real sick to the point that I have tried to take my life on several occassions...

Dear Bernice

I am not convinced that trying to take your life is the best solution to your problem. Have you considered other approaches?

You do not trust him, you do not like him. He does not love you, and has no respect for you.

You need you ask yourself why you are together at all.

Leaving him will take courage - but once you've done it, you'll have your life back. And when it belongs to you, you might feel less like ending it.