Stuck in a relationship
I really hope you can answer this. I have had a problem for a really
long time. I have been dating this boy for about 9 months now and this
were going great.
But now I see that hes only giving me surface data. I ask him questions
about our relationship and he answer with a 'yes' or a 'I don't know'.
He never gets into his feelings. Plus I also call him and I make the plans
he never does anything like that.
And all my friends tell me I deserve better. And well there is a guy
that is my best friend and when I talk to him about my problem I can see
how much he cares about me...... and just a little while ago he said he
had feelings for me. And I have feelings for him..... but I just can't
break up with my boyfriend I want to but I don't know what holding me
Can you please help?
I can see why you are confused ... so am I
First, what's so different about your botfriend now, compared with before
you started dating?
Second, who chooses your boyfriends - you or 'all your friends'
Thirdly, if you despise your boyfriend so much, I cannot see why he doesn't
dump you ... perhaps 'all his friends' tell him you are worth it?