Jealous and Angry
Me and my husband have been together for 4 years and we have been married
for 4 months. Ever since I can remember I have been incredibly jealous
of everyone my husband comes in contact with. I am even jealous of his
I have no idea why I have these feelings. I know that my husband would
never do anything to hurt me, but I can't seem to get rid of these feelings.
It is tearing us about because he can't do anything without me asking
tons of questions and then getting upset. I don't even like him going
to his mothers house.
It is getting out of control. I am trying to just ignore some of these
feelings, or at least not tell my husband about them, but they always
come back. What should I do?
You have taken the first step, admitting that it is your problem.
The next step is to get help, and soon.
Personally, I'd recommend counselling, in a way that includes your husband.
Two reasons for this; first, he will know the extent of your problem
- and your willingness to work through it.
Second, he will know that you are not blaming him for this - you have
suggested that you give him a hard time - he needs to understand it is