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We Ended Up Having Sex

Tom wrote:

A friend of mine (who works in the same office) recently told me that she is in love with me.

But I don't feel the same about her and I told her so.

But then afterwards we ended up having sex. I still don't feel anything more than friendship towards her and I still tell her so.

She tells me that she understands this but she does not want our situation (physical relations) to end.

I'm quite confused about this. I don't know how to end this physical relations without hurting our friendship.

I need advise in dealing with this situation and coming out of it with no one getting hurt.

Dear Tom,

"We Ended Up Having Sex "

It looks pretty pathetic, doesn't it?

That's because it is. After your 'friend' was honest enough to share her feelings, you took advantage of her. Now you say you want no-one to get hurt.

You stated that you just wanted friendship, then stated, by your actions, that you wanted more.

You really mean you want a way to divert her pain where it won't touch you.

Sadly, you've deceived her, raised her hopes, and now propose to dash them. That carries pain.

And I sincerely hope you get your share.

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