We Ended Up Having Sex
A friend of mine (who works in the same office) recently told me that
she is in love with me.
But I don't feel the same about her and I told her so.
But then afterwards we ended up having sex. I still don't feel anything
more than friendship towards her and I still tell her so.
She tells me that she understands this but she does not want our situation
(physical relations) to end.
I'm quite confused about this. I don't know how to end this physical
relations without hurting our friendship.
I need advise in dealing with this situation and coming out of it with
no one getting hurt.
"We Ended Up Having Sex "
It looks pretty pathetic, doesn't it?
That's because it is. After your 'friend' was honest enough to share
her feelings, you took advantage of her. Now you say you want no-one to
You stated that you just wanted friendship, then stated, by your actions,
that you wanted more.
You really mean you want a way to divert her pain where it won't touch
Sadly, you've deceived her, raised her hopes, and now propose to dash
them. That carries pain.
And I sincerely hope you get your share.