In love at work ...
Ok, I'm in love with someone I work with. She is five years older than
me and not seeing anyone. The problem is, as far as I can tell from her,
she has no feelings for me, at least not in the way I would wish.
I'm friendly with her and she is with me. We're simply collegues. Everytime
I try to move our friendship on by talking to her I clam up or start babbling
- which has never happened to me before. Also, I'm afraid that if I did
try to tell her how I feel it would make work uncomfortable for both of
I know this is a ridiculous problem and I should just try to forget about
it, but I can't. It's not a crush, I'm in my 20s now and have experienced
all that stuff already. It's not just hormonal lust either.
This is different because it won't go away - it's there permanently.
I really do believe I've i've found the woman I want to be with for the
rest of my life, but I don't think she feels the same way. Help.
Thank Heavens she doesn't feel the same way.
One babbling idiot is quite enough, isn't it?
You don't even know her; you've hardly spoken a rational word, and you
are telling me you've "found the woman I want to be with for the
rest of my life".
If that's not a crush, pray tell me what is a crush?
Get real. Forget all this riding off into the sunset stuff and make friends.
Get involved / get her involved in work social stuff. Get to know her.
Talk to her.
All things are possible; but miracles sometimes need help!