I have a Crush

Sheila wrote:

I'm a 20 year old woman and I have a crush on my 15 year old cousin. Is this crush that I have on my cousin normal?

Dear Sheila

No.

There's nothing wrong with finding him attractive, just as you might see someone at the store and be attracted.

But if it worries you the point of writing to me, it ain't normal.

Don't go there, you'll regret it.