Sex: Yes or No?
I've been with my boyfriend now for nearly a year, and two months ago
we lost our virginity to one another.
We had sex twice, then mutually agreed that it wasn't something that
either of us were ready to deal with.
Now we've had some time to contemplate the situation and he thinks he's
ready for such a commitment, as do I at times when I'm with him.
On the contrary when I'm with other people, like friends and family,
I feel a slight tinge of regret and guilt about what we engaged in a couple
of months ago.
Physically considering protection and birth control, I've responsibly
got my bases covered. I guess what my inquiry really is what will befall
my relationship if sex becomes a typical thing?
Things have really not been that different between us since the first
time. Our relationship doesn't seem hurt, then again time healed what
resulted two months ago, but still don't want this to aggravate old wounds.
I that we are very serious about how we feel, so I think what's the big
deal? Am I some love-sick young girl in denial, or do I take on this relationship
What do I do and what do you think?
I don't think you are telling me half the story, that's what I think.
You say you 'mutually agreed' not to continue with sex (Oh yeah?) without
mentioning any disagreement, then go on about old wounds and time healing.
You talk about maturity and responsibility, but don't say if you enjoyed
it or not. Or what "he" thinks (does he think?)
If you don't share the problem, how can anyone help you?