Advicemeant Archive 2002

When I masturbate it hurts - The problems are few; and you've got them both ..

Unable to have sex - It is almost certain that the problem is not one of

Husband has changed - But you've probably changed too ..

Dating a 19 year old man - if you 'need' to make it 'official', ask ...

Abusive Husband - There may be a future for you with your husband ..

I've lost a friend - deceiving her about her ex boyfriend seems odd ...

I ruined the best friendship I ever had - we know that in an instant, you went from friend to ...

Phazed and confused - Relationships start out with an almost telepathic ..

Why Do Men Lie? - OK, so he had you fooled, and you've come down ...

She is engaged to be married .. - even though she really doesn't care ...

Making peace with in-laws - Your mother in law may not be a sad old monster...

Family won't grow up! - Why should they, when you provide a soft landing ....

She Loves me, She Loves Me Not .. - tell her you need to get on with your life ...

I would like to get engaged - if 'being engaged' is so important - why didn't you ...

Where do I go from here? - you might learn from your mistakes, but I suspect ...

Crush or something more? - you are not special until the moment she tells you are ...

Injured And I Care - The key issue, is that if you do love her ...

Who'll Give A Job To A Felon? - You are between a rock and a hard place ...

All I want to do is run away - Do stop making it difficult for yourself. ....

Is she really my friend? - Neither of you has the guts to talk about ...

At least one fight a week - Why put up with it?

Why Won't He Propose? - Marriage is not something to be taken lightly ....

I was totally free-spirited - It's probably just a matter of growing up ....

Still Obsessed With Ex's Ex - Through choice or coercion, he had signed ....

Out of State - out of mind - he's being extraordinarily cowardly about the whole business...

We Are The Perfect Family - Nothing will change unless you change ...

Ex Wife Still Loves Me - Just remember the simple fact of cheating ...

I feel like a lost cause - You know that there is help available, ...

Older Woman Younger Man - How much does this matter and why ....

Ex Wife Still Loves Me - Just remember the simple fact of cheating ...

Low Self Esteem Ruining Marriage Hopes - Few people can boast the perfect body ...

First Sex Fear - Work with him to achieve something together ....

Guilt Over Lost Friendship? - It is always possible that you can ...

Friend made me cancel plans - Failing to pick up the phone and blaming her ...

We decided we just want to be friends - Who's "We" ?? ...

Confused About Ex's Intentions - You both like to be in control ....

The Effects Gambling has on a Marriage - No, you are not getting the hint. ...

Masturbation - The problem is not so much the masturbation, ...

Periods every other week - It might be nothing if the period...

Invasion of Privacy and Security - Sadly, it depends on the bank's ...

Children and In Laws - It really doesn't matter that you hate ...

Meaningless Situation? - Are you staying for the kinds or are you...

Husband Half Unfaithful - Let's just look at the facts; not only ...

Is This Third Time Lucky? - I really don't see the problem ....

Jealous and Angry - You have taken the first step ...

Sex In The Shower - How he ejaculated doesn't matter - what ....

I Want To Lose My Virginity - If you really are 'ready' - that is, not ...

Out of the closet, into ... - There's no way of avoiding it, you must ....

Should I tell the boss? - Does his reaction really matter?

Eight years as a mattress - He's been happy to use your body and bend ...

Wife has lost interest in sex - The solution is unlikely to be in the bedroom ...

Am I Too Ugly? - Many of us go through life without 'perfection'

We Ended Up Having Sex - It looks pretty pathetic, doesn't it?

Is it age, or is it me? - You are quick to blame your failures on women ...

Still in bed with my Ex - He's lying to his girlfriend, seeing you too ....

Dead from the waist down - If he cares for you, then he should be ...

No period for close to a year - The bad news, of course, is that you ...

Is The Marriage Over? - But if he has a defence, that lies in your ...

10-year-old in Dad's Bed - I don't often strongly advise, but where children ...

Husband watching porn - It doesn't bite; it's not the end of the world ....

Husband has lost all interest - You might well be right about your husband's ...

Husband's in prison .. - If this new man is so special, then six ...

Trying to trap my wife - Do both of you a favour, and leave the area ..

Will this upset my friends? - What is it about "ex" that you do not understand? ...

He won't say yes or no - I suspect there are two very different problems here ....

Does she care? - Part of me says "go with the flow, don't rock the boat" ...

I want my friend back! - You think it's all about smoking, I doubt it ...

Can friendship grow? - All three of us know that there's only one solution - the usual one ...

I want closure! - How dare you declare your love by email, then claim ....

Trying to be friends again - If this carries on, has it not occurred that they ....

Sex: Yes or No? - You say you 'mutually agreed' not to ...

Best Friend Got Married - You agonize at length about the possibilities...

In love at work ... - You don't even know her; you've hardly spoken a rational ...

I have a Crush - There's nothing wrong with finding him attractive ...

Problematic Father - Perhaps it all depends on his will, but ....

First lesbian relationship doubts - you've told me little about yourself or your partner ...

No periods - Why? - Hold on there! Yes, it could be serious, but there are many ...