Husband and Porn
My husband spends alot of time looking at porn...hours and hours.
I recently found a notebook full of the stuff he printed out in his dresser.
I find it to be alarming concidering it is all women tied up and other
Should he seek help for this or not?
It may come as a surprise to you, but most men spend a fair bit of time
and money on pornography - indeed, I've often felt in a distinct minority
for never having seen the attraction of it. Increasingly, women are beginning
to resent aspects of pornography, but even ardent feminists can understand
the male processes.
So it ain't necessarily a problem.Consider the porn in your husband's
dresser, as well as the pron on TV and the movies, and every newsstand,
then put it a little to one side .. if the porn is not the isue; what
is? Is the porn telling you something about your marriage?