I want all my friends together ...
My two best friends in the whole world HATE each other! My Birthday is
coming up soon and if I invite them both one of them might not come. Please
help me what should I do?
Your birthday is your day, not theirs, and you want all your friends
around you. And why not?. All you have to do is invite both (at
the same time) then speak to each one, explaining that you understand
she hates XX, but you value her friendship, and you know she'll
put her feelings to one side for the one day.
Please don't be tempted to use the day to try and force them to be friends;
that'll ruin everyone's day.
If they really are close friends, that will work; if there's a problem,
at least you'll know who your friends are!
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