Can my parents find out?
I have sex with my boyfriend almost every night because he wants
to, and we use protection like condoms and birth control.
But I am always worried about my parents finding out. If I go to the
doctor for a check up - can he tell if I've had sex or not?
What a fascinating note.
You have sex 'because he wants to' - so is he raping you, or do you want
to as well? Or are you just preparing the blame if something goes wrong.
I'd get all that straight, if I were you.
I'm glad you use protection, but do be sure you are doing it properly,
especially if you are not sure how much you care for your boyfriend.
If the doctor does a personal examination, it may be clear that you are
no longer a virgin. But not necessarily. And it's not exactly a routine
Even if the doctor can tell, that doesn't mean that your parents will
find out, though that might depend on your age, and where you live, and
how trustworthy the doctor is.