My daughter is eighteen and we had
thought we knew who her father was,
that was until we got a dna test done
last year, now we know that he is
not her father.
There was one other guy who could
be, so I found him and emailed him.
I told him what had happened and
if there was a possibilty that it
could be him. Now I haven't heard
back from him.
What should I do now?
My daughter doesn't want anything
from him but to know who he is.
Put yourself in his shoes; he's had
no contact with your daughter in his
life, and suddenly he's getting this
huge responsibility thrust at him.
Not to mention he probably thinks
it's a scam for money!
I'm sure you are acting in good faith,
and your daughter is entitled to want
But he's only human - even a saint
would be a little worried!
I reckon your best bet is to get
a lawyer to write to him, with your
assurance that you are not making
any claim against him; otherwise I
doubt your daughter will get the reassurance