Can I have a second chance?
About a year ago, I went out with this guy for about two months, but
then we broke up after I decided I had lost interest in him and we weren't
seeing much of each other.
Throughout the year we have become really good friends, and I've decided
I still really like him and we get along really well. We hang out together
Lately he has been flirting with me a lot and a lot of times it seems
that he likes me too, but I don't want to ask him in fear of messing up
our relationship now.
So what I need to know is am I reading all the signals right? Or am I
just blinded by hope?
I think you're right to be cautious, friendships are valuable.
Before you consider how to deal with him, don't you think you should
sort out your head?
You "lost interest in him"? Don't you think you need a clearer
understanding of what went wrong, else you are likely to simply repeat
Having thought about that, you'll be better placed to understand why
he is slow to trust you and risk further rejection.
Probably best to sit down and talk about it, don't you think?