Love Triangle

Melanie wrote:

I have slowly fallen for one of my mates Sean - we have a great laugh and always get pissed and mess around.

On Saturday we kissed when drunk and it has not been mentioned since. The only thing is he has a girlfriend and a child and also sometimes has a bit of a dabble with my best mate Helen.

What should I do to stop myself from getting hurt?

Dear Melanie,

Keep your knickers on and open your eyes. Try to learn from others mistakes, don't feel you have to be a fool yourself.