Can Money Men Threaten Me?
The other day I was on the phone,
trying to get some answers to my attempt
to refinance my house (which has at
this time taken over three months).
The V/P gets on the phone and basically
threatens me with Black Listing me
with all his associates (those Mortgage
Finance companies that he is affiliated
with), because of hearing complaints
from the staff at his mortgage company
of my harrassing them (I am basically
calling in too many times in his mind)
and being rude.
I am just fustrated with the whole
process and want some answers, I have
over 60 grand in equity in my home
and am trying to pull some (not all)
of it to pay off credit cards and
my leased vehicle.
This refinance has just been one
heck of a night mare. My question
to you is, is it legal for him to
threaten me like that? And if he did
follow through with his threat of
black listing me, Is there any recourse?
I don't know the law where you live,
but in most places, the folk with
money can do pretty well as they like;
you need them more than they need
I'm not saying that's right - but
that's real. The trick is to pick
a good company, and avoid the cowboys.
If he maliciously gets you on a black
list, legally or illegally - all he
has to do is misplace a few forms,
lets face it - then I'm sure there's
a way round it. But that will cost
you yet more money.
It's not nice, but the first rule
of starting a fight is "Don't
start a fight you cannot win"