Husband lost to drugs?
My husband is a member of Narcotics
Anonymous, we got married just nine
I have been trying to deal with him
with no any kind of luck, he's been
trying to convince me that I am the
one who has the problem .. he beat
me many times so badly ...
I know that he loves me in his own
way. I feel sick now with no self
respect, no family , no money , no
peace just a little hope that one
day he would change.
But I am afraid that I wouldn't be
able to live that long ... selfishness
is killing him. I still love him that's
for sure but I don't want to lose
my self any more .. what shall I do
Not easy. I can't give the 'politically
correct' answer, because I don't know
what it is; so I'm afraid this is
the best I can do.
Some people on drugs are simply not
the same person any more. In the case
of your husband, he's beating you
- that doesn't sound quite right to
Just for a moment, think of him in
this way; you have your Husband; but
he currently exists only in memory.
You also have your UnHusband, who
thinks it's funny to hit you.
You've tried all this time; you still
love your Husband, and your Husband
still loves you.
But you do not, I suspect, love your
UnHusband - and he most certainly
does not love you. You owe him nothing,
he wants just to use and abuse you.
The question you now must ask yourself
"What's the chances of UnHusband
You need to find an answer to that,
and then make your decisions for the
future. But don't confuse the two
- they are NOT the same person.