Am I getting
bored with My Love?
Hi, I have a
wondeful girlfriend that loves me
so much I can feel her love to me
all the time. We have been together
for about seven months.
I love her, but
sometimes I am afraid of getting bored
with her, I mean maybe one day I get
sick of this relation and break up
with her, I don't want to do this
at all, I love her but I am afraid
Sometime I really
feel like that, that I am getting
bored and when she says I love you
or when I say it, I feel it's not
true, I don't know I am confused about
it, does it mean that I don't love
her anymore which I don't think so.
Or is it a normal
feeling and just a temporary thing
and will go soon? I had the same feeling
a month ago but it was coz I had some
problems and pressures.
Please let me
know how can I refresh the love and
make our relation work, I don't wanna
lose my girl at all. I love her.
It may be one
of those self-doubt things that really
doesn't matter; no relationship is
perfect, and you are, after all, only
On the other hand,
I suspect you really don't have much
in the way of feelings for her at
Your letter is
all about "me" not "us"
and most definitely not "her".
Don't you think
if you really cared, your boredom
might make some of her thoughts or
behaviour annoying? Doesn't it occur
to you that the warmth of her love
might arouse guilt about the fact
you might be deceiving yourself -
Nope; are you
sure it's not your car you're talking