I wonder why he's jealous?
I have been dating
a guy for 1 year and 3 months.
I have never once
cheated on him and I don't intend
to. However, he is insecure and thinks
that I want to be with someone else.
he has been pushing me away and claims
that it is because of my friendship
with another guy. (My best friend
for 5 years), saying that he thinks
we are more than friends.
I have talked
to my friend about this and he is
upset that I am getting hurt. (This
is the first intimate relationship
I have had).
I am confused
about how to solve this problem. If
you can help me please do. Thank you.
Not an easy situation
to be in, and one that often has no
What I suggest
you do is to look again at the whole
thing; what exactly do you want; what
could you change (should you change
First, be quite
honest, if you had an absolute choice,
which guy do you want?
How have you had
a 'best friend' for 5 years without
sex being mentioned. Please, be honest.
What you must
establish is do you actually want
to maintain the long term relationship
with your man - or the one with your
friend. Sadly, in the real world,
it is unlikely you can have both -
especially as you've been talking
to each about the other.
Make you mind
up; then search here under jealousy