Can love heal my wounds?
I've been with my boyfriend
for over a year and a half. The relationship
has been heaven - sent except that he
cheated on me about three months into
the relationship with his ex-girlfriend.
He had already fathered
a daughter - this incident resulted in
his second daughter.
The hardest part was that
he kept this from me until she was born.
We've talked about it so
many times and I truly believe he regrets
I know we share a true
connection, however, I can't help but
to think about what he did.
I become overwhelmed with
jealosy and pain, though I know that
what happened will never change.
Is it possible to overcome
such an obstacle with pure love?
There are those who say that love can
do anything - I'm a little sceptical,
and I believe it can make you believe
He did deceive you with her, and he did
deceive you over a long period - so don't
feel guilty about not trusting him. If
you do have a good thing between you,
and he's really sorry, then you can be
is important, but trust, truth and respect
are more important - without them, love
is self deceipt.
Be open with him about your feelings,
but don't torture him or yourself.
don't try to forget.
Let time and honesty take you forward