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Xena wrote:

I'm 20 years old and have been going out with my boyfriend for about 10 months.

We do love each other, but we do have up and down patches. I get jealous if he turns his attention to another girl.

But I started to like this guy who my boyfriend knows but they are not good friends. I get jealous when he talks to another girls as well.

I just want to know whether I should do something about it, am I betraying my boyfriend by liking another guy?

Dear Xena,

Wrong question. You meant to say, "Am I betraying my boyfriend by encouraging this guy." Answer: Yes.

Jealousy hurts both sexes just as much. You say you "love each other" you say "they are not good friends".

And don't you just love the power?

Bit of luck, you'll get them both - or get them fighting over you. Won't you feel good then?

Any fool girl with a human body can get two guys, and get them fighting. (And yes, it works the other way too).

But it's hard work, you might end up with the wrong one.

Or, Saints Preserve Us - they might both realise what's going on and find a decent girlfriend each.

And talk about you and your games.

Life's too short. Pick one and be happy.

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