This guy from school
I met this guy from school ... we went
on a date and it went good and everything
... both pretty shy ... but we both like
I guess he just has low self esteem ...
I'm the kind of person that the guy should
be the one to ask you out and bring all
of that kind of stuff up and I know since
he's so shy and probably fears rejection
that he would never ask me and I cannot
... this is messed up now and doesn't make
any sense but maybe you could give me some
advice anyways. thanks,
p.s. I don't suppose you might be able
to email him saying something like be assertive
to a girl you have recently gone out with
or something like that could you?
well if you could anyways his address
is ... but don't say my name [edited].
Get a grip,
willya? First, this is the 21st Century,
and it really is not good enough to blame
it all on his self esteem - when you admit
you're the same.
And you know
it, or you wouldn't have told me what 'kind
of person' you are.
Look at it
this way, we're not talking about marriage,
we're talking about another date. Hey,
not even that - we're talking about "doing
happen unless one of you asks. Might as
well be you?
even think about getting someone else to
'help' - what will that do for his
self esteem? Be brave!