I wish I had a boyfriend
Hi anon, I'm actually
very glad you tell the exact truth, 'cos
that is just what I want to hear! My problem
may seem a bit sad, but it really does
I'm 14, and sometimes
I wish I had a boyfriend. The guys don't
seem to notice me though, or they find
me unattractive. One of the two. I think
it might be becoz I'm very short, and a
bit dhubby, but I don't think I'm really
ugly in the face, and my friends don't
I'm kinda shy too,
though. What exactly is my problem?
your problems are the very worst type;
the ones that don't exist.
you've said shows that you have (broadly
speaking) the kinds of hopes and fears
that you ought to be having at your age.
people move at different speeds, and though
it looks like like all the others are having
boyfriends, it really isn't a competition
- best to get a good one than anyone.
Do be honest
with yourself, but not overly critical.
You are still developing, so worry about
the things you have control over. Posture;
eye contact - walk tall and don't avoid
I don't know
enough to give you detail, but if you're
a little shy, concentrate on friendship,
the guys are going through the same process
- and they're about two years less emotionally