I've wasted three years of his life
Me and my boyfriend have been going out
for 3 years on and off and always fight.
A stupid little argument which set off
our last fight may have ended it for good.
I said something he didnt like and he
hung up. I called him back and he refused
to pick up so I left him a message saying
Usually when we break up it only lasts
for like a week without either one calling
each other but I always end up giving in
cuz he is totally stubborn. But it's been
a record 3 weeks ...
How can I get him back? What will the
future bring? He usually comes back but
this time I really think he's sticking
to his guns. I'm 17 and he's 18 and I'm
so tired of fighting.
If we did get back together can we be
Oh Dear Oh Dear Oh Dear Mel.
so tired of fighting" really is no
basis for a long term relationship. Do
you want a long term relationship?
With him? What for?
In one sense,
you were made for each other - you both
like playing silly childish mind games.
That, too, is no way to spend three years
of your life. Is it?
minutes thinking about him, not feeling
sorry for yourself, and try to work out
what it is you actually want. If it's him,
great. Now spend a minute or two. Sorry,
an hour or two, trying to figure what he
wants. Can you give it? Do you want to?
decide there's a relationship there to
save, call him. Don't whine, don't plead,
don't do all the other things you do ...
TALK TO HIM. Maybe listen, too? Good Luck!