Love on a cruise
I met her on a cruise and I can't get
her off mind. She was wonderful and beautiful
... we talked the whole night and when
she kissed me a chill went through my spine.
Every time I hear her name I get weak
in the knees ... but lately it seems that
she has been avoiding me [lots edited]
I don't want to be a big part in her
life or even take up a lot of time I just
want to be a part of her life.
I was wondering if you could give some
advice on what to say to her my feelings
or even write her an email on how I feel.
Please respond asap.
but it wasn't love, it was 'propinquity'
- two people msinterpreting their feelings
- she's back in the real world, you're
still on the boat.
happens when you are relaxed in someone's
company but in an artificial situation
- your subconscious, trying to make sense
of it, thinks its love.
those office romances - two people find
seconds of relaxation in a stressful world,
think they're in love - the clue is what
they say: "She made me laugh"
"It's chemistry" "We just
clue is the pathetic and totally self-centered
ending of your note; you have no interest
in "her" you just think being
there would make you feel better. Rubbish.
It was good, it's over, move on.