I have a crush on my friend
Hi. I'm 14, and I
have a crush on one of my friends.
I've known him for
the last year or so. He's really smart,
funny, cute, and outgoing amongst many
I've told him how I
feel about him but he doesn't feel the
Maybe it's because
he's Asian and I'm not blonde. I don't
But, is there anything
you can think of that may convince him
to start liking me? Because he's really
great and I know no one else like him and
I really want him to like me.
Please help. Thanks.
First off, I'm not clear on the problem
... if he's a friend of yours, you already
have access to his finer qualities. What
do you want? Keep him all to yourself?
Lock him in your room? Own him?
What is that you want that you don't already
Second, who's the racist, you or him?
If it's you, that might be the problem.
Not everyone makes silly assumptions based
Third, be yourself; either he wants you
or he doesn't. Accept it and move on.