Only problem is her appearance

Neil wrote:

I'm a 18 yrs old male. My problem is that I've been in love since a year now. I'm in love with an Asian girl who I knew through the internet. We kept sending ordinary letter and emails also.

I really love her, but the only problem is about her appearance. She doesn't seem to be pretty in the photos she sent me. We planed to meet each other after a year or two, but I'm now afraid of not liking her appearance when we meet.

I don't know what to do. Please advise me.

Dear Neil,

Go stick your head where the sun don't shine.

First, why does it matter? She isn't a status symbol, she isn't your property. And you claim you 'love her'

Second, law of averages says we can't all be 'pretty' - maybe she has other qualities?