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Cutting my boy in half - You say you are thinking only of what's best ...

Lies, irresponsibility and abuse - You've faced yourself with your failings, and ...

Lies, Lies, Lies - Your choices are surprisingly simple - accept him for ...

Molested by my cousin - Whatever you decide, I'd very strongly advise ...

Imaginary creatures surround me - Your little secret is probably much more ...

I want to lose my virginity - I'm not here to give moral lectures ...

Baby and Two Families - First, sit down with your husband, make sure ...

In Love With Unattainable Friend - let's be honest - you've not fallen in love with her, you've fallen ...

Her Past Tortures Me Day And Night - what she did before you were going out is really not any ...

What to talk about? - Shyness can seem like the end of the world ...

Long Lost Friend - Whatever you felt seven years ago was different for him...

I think I am in love - it does not matter if it's love or a crush; either way ...

More than friends? - Always be honest with him, and ...

He Lies About Everything - You write as if all the problems are him ....

Dating a divorced man - I'd suggest considering three things, among others: ...

I didn't want to lose him - your expectations suggest that you haven't ...

In Love With My Ex - Tell him you'll be his slave forever ...

People have made comments - This is a more common problem than ...

Mom's Hurting My Head - I don't think this is about you, I think it's about your mom ....

My son has drink and drugs - you are going to have to make some hard decisions ...

Problems on how to deal with In Laws - He loves you and his folks. That's as it should be. Your problem..

30 - 40 days between periods - In almost every case, irregular periods mean no ...

Says she's scared of sex - Some of the possibilities are not pleasant, so be prepared. .

He puts his Mom before ME - If you are frustrated, impatient, tired of him ....

Things Looking Pretty Awful - The point is, after all that stuff, there has been a huge ...

Jealous Husband - If he seriously believes you are seeing all these people, then ...

Husband and Porn - It ain't necessarily a problem.Consider the porn in your husband's ...

I hate the people next door! - neighbours can be a nuisance, and often are. But ...

Best friend gets beaten - One day, she will make that decision to reclaim her life ...

I want ALL my friends together - All you have to do is invite both (at the same time) then ...

Can I put things right? - There's only one thing worse than losing a friendship, and that is ...

I won't have him in my house - So, if you want to help, you need to think of how you can help them...

Who'll hire a felon? - Now, I'm not going to pretend it will be easy - either way - but, if you ...

Can my parents find out? - If the doctor does a personal examination, it may be clear that you are ...

Is it rearing its Ugly Head? - Decide what you want; work out who cares for whom, and how much. Then ...

He won't betray her ... - Keep at it; sounds like you've almost persuaded him to betray his girlfriend .. ...

My husband is a drug addict - be clear, it's his problem, not yours. It's a problem ...

Is there hope for lying husband? - I have to say that I suspect he's a liar and a fool; he sounds like the ...

Family stability vs. happiness - I'm sorry, there's no magic wand; whatever you decide ...

Nominal Restriction? - You didn't think about that when you married her, did you? You gave her...

Health warning on us both ... - Well, no-one likes infections that affect their sex life, and that ...

Can I have a second chance? - Don't you think you need a clearer understanding of what went wrong, else ...

Public Parenting Problems - Be clear; you do not have to let anyone - much less strangers ...

Grandparents spoiling grandchild - Did your conflicts start with their child care, or is there an element...

Should I accept my husband's child? - You are not the child's stepmother - you mention the mother is still around, and, I guess ...

I'll never forget What's His Name? - By the time you read this, you'll probably have remembered...

Is there hope for a no-hoper? - Enough of his problems; let's look at yours and the children's ...

Should I stay or should I go? - From what you say - and the way you say it - not only do I believe you when you say your husband will never change..

How do I tell her? - Take it slow - why do you need to profess anything? Concentrate on being ...

Am I in love with him? - They say that if you are in love, you'll know it. That's not always true, but ...

Why was he flirting with me so much? - What is it about the word "shy" that you don't understand? ...

I liked this guy for 4 years now - Go for it ... there's just one thing ..

Ambition can't communicate - Join the human race; stop treating 'communication' like an academic subject. It isn't...

Where'd the bonus go wrong? Check the agreement and go to law if it's worth it - but ...

I feel like I am being left behind - When things aren't going right, it's inevitable that the success ...

When your best friend is a jerk - The thing about friendship, is that you don't just stay friends for the good times - you support each ...

Lonely and in Love on the web? - You met on the net, your friendship is on the net, and, so far as I know, the net ain't ...

True Love - or Bad Faith? - What I'll bet is happening is that, probably initially by chance, you two have come to an unspoken ...

Friend writes terrible stuff - But this isn't about her, is it? You're ashamed, and all you care about is ...

Sexuality in doubt? - It's not at all unusual for people
to go through a phase of attraction to their own sex; it's not that unusual ...

Ashamed of Lesbian Love - Are you really ashamed, or simply embarassed? Are you ashamed, or is it just that you think you ought to be ashamed? Or are you ...

I was betrayed by my best friend - Your willingness to forgive and make peace is admirable, but ...

Crush is crushing me - What exactly is it you want that you haven't already got? You have a great friend ...

Friends no more? - Get it straight; friends aren't a social service from the Almighty, they are ...

Mixed race, mixed up - Knowing how he feels - and why - will make your own decisions much easier. If, for example, . ..

Jealous - or breaking up? - You say you don't want to lose her - but why not? What I'm saying is, stop ...

Contacting my father - First, be sure of your facts before you do anything. That means you need to discuss ...

Possible Child Abuse - If you are sure that this is child abuse, then ...

Paternity Problem - Put yourself in his shoes; he's had no contact with your daughter ...

Why does she treat me like a child? - I can think of two possible reasons; You choose ...

Can I trust my Dad? - You need him because he's your father, not for what he gives you ...

Sex during separation - There's nothing worse than resenting someone's behaviour in the full knowledge you've done ..

Unjustified Jealousy - It may be more a crush than True Love - but you'll never know until ...

I want to leave home - You come across as fairly self centred. My suspicion is that your ..

He's been lying to me - You don't trust him, and I trust your judgement ...

Love Triangle - Keep your knickers on and open your eyes ...

Am I getting bored with My Love? - It may be one of those self-doubt things that really doesn't matter; no relationship ...

Experimenting with sex - Everyone (almost) experiments with sex at some time in their lives...

Can Money men threaten me? - The folk with money can do pretty well as they like; you ...

Body Odour - First, you need to know how serious the problem is. Sounds silly? It's not. Many people think ...

Have I lost my husband to drugs? - I can't give the 'politically correct' answer, because I don't know what it is ...

Is my depression real? - Of course you have feelings about the things that have happened, but that doesn't always mean that those ...

Does Mother take advantage? - You do need to ask yourself how much you need her, and how much she needs you . .

Love or Friends? - It doesn't really sound like love comes into it, really. There seems ..

Only problem is her appearance - She isn't a status symbol, she isn't your property ...

I have a crush on my friend - What is that you want that you don't already have?

Best Friend or Worst Enemy? - But if a friend doesn't act like a friend, they are not a friend

Friend won't let me help - How much concern is friendship, and how much is resentment about being excluded? Don't misunderstand me ..

I wonder why he's jealous? - what exactly do you want; what could you change ...

I fancy my Ex's best mate - From what you've said, she's as much a slimeball as you are, so keep after her.

Is it just convenience? - If you can't tell the difference between love and a bed, then you have a problem

He loves - but won't marry  - On the face of it, he's being honest with you, and saving both of you from making a serious mistake.

Yawn between two lovers  - Are you still attached to Man Number One? Why? You'll never move on until you face this obsession.

In love with my best friend - From what you've written, you have fallen for the same line the others did ..

Can love heal my wounds - Love is important, but ...

Am I as stupid as this? Really? - It's your life ....

Have I lost him? - First, sort your head out ...

Is my sister my friend? - There's no short cut to ..

Feelings for more than one - Any fool girl with a human body ...

Is my boyfriend married? - Ask his mother ...

Haunted by the past - This is your problem, not his ...

This guy from school - Get a grip, willya ...

Love on a cruise - I'm sorry, but it wasn't love ...

Rocket science it ain't - Think what you like, it won't change a thing ...

Can't let my first love go - Chances are, you never will get over him ...

Love across two faiths - Might be impossible, might not be ...

Am I too innocent? - If you do use your initiative ...

In love with imaginary friend - Go over it all in your head

I wish I had a boyfriend - I'm afraid your problems are the very worst ...

I'm ready - I think - You obviously have no expectation ...

Wasted 3 years of his life - You were made for each other ...

Long Distance Love? - Long distance relationships start ...

Scared of losing this jerk - Well, for a start, do stop whining, will ya!

I go really, really red - There's really not a lot you can do; most people flush to some extent ...

It hurts to be called a whore - You are what you are. You cannot prove you are not anything, and there's no reason to. Gossip moves ..

Fighting a felony conviction Some careers will now be closed to him, and short term, he will find it tough to get ..

My dad has been sacked Be clear, he has done wrong, and so making excuses will not help. He knows that no-one is authorised to alter ...

Will I win custody? You brush off your reasons - but ask yourself why you are doing this. The father may ...

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