Friend shares my taste - in everything

Kim wrote:
I have this friend who is a really good friend. we do a lot together. But every time I get somthing they like, they go out and get it them self. I do not know how to tell them how I feel about them going and buying the same thing I got. Please help thanks.

Dear Kim,
How do you feel about it? Flattered? Sad? Contempt? What? The simple answer, if it is a friend, is to discuss before you buy. Ask for their opinion, discuss what might best suit you, and what your friend. Go buy together. But talk - and listen - to your friend.