Sexual awakening or what?

Phoenix wrote:

I recently became sexually active with my boyfriend and before him I had never been sexually stimulated be anyone or any means.

Now I'm a little curious because I don't think that I've ever had an orgasm. So my question is what is an orgasm supposed to feel like and what is supposed to happen?

I know it sounds stupid but I really don't know. Is there something wrong with me if I haven't had one yet?

Dear Phoenix,

As a man, I'm not best placed to answer this, and you might consider opening a discussion.  

For what it's worth, I'm not sure that an orgasm can be described in words ... If you had had one, you'd know.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with you if you haven't had one yet, especially if you have only recently become sexually active.   

But you need to talk to women!