Fantasy - or Real Life?
Can a guy really love you, care for you,
can do anything for you and still fantasize
about other girls once in a while? A friend
of mine, her age is 18, has been going
around with this guy since three years.
The guy is really serious for her.
She has always been very insecure and
scared that he will find a better girl.
And now he tells her that he has had
fantasies about other girls.
Tell me how to guide her. Is it natural
for a guy to fantasize about others even
while loving someone else ?
Does this means he loves her less?
with the general. Some individuals live
on fantasy; to them, the person they're
with is always a film star or whatever.
Others - like you - are very down to earth,
and can't see that at all. And all points
are that women fantasize more than men
- but no matter, really.
well, if both of a couple do - or both
don't - not a problem, they know where
one doesn't; can obviously be a problem,
especially if there's jealousy or simply
you've said, two issues stand out - why
has this suddenly come out now. Chance?
During a row?
And who is
the fantasy? An impossible dream - or the
girl next door?
If he just
happened to mention he fantasized about
Meg Ryan, tell him I saw her first [I jest].
to your friend is simple: She must ask
herself, "Other than this, is there
a problem?" ... because on it's
own, it is not a problem.