Seperation - end or beginning?
My wife and I are currently seperated.
She said she wanted to experience
some of the life she missed growing
up, but that she truly loves me.
She has disrupted the entire family,
kids included and even though I and
they try expessing our opinions to
her, she doesn't want to hear it.
She says that all she is doing is
having a good time with the people
she goes out with and there is no
She goes out to dinner and occasionally
to a club. I try to give her her freedom
and understanding. My question is
1. Does she truly love me?
2. Is she being honest with me about
the other men?
3. We have been spending more and
more time together than before.
Will this continue to improve and
eventually bring us together as a
family again? Please help.
you can answer this; you know her,
you know in your heart of hearts if
she's being honest. I have given a
few thoughts on your questions - but
I've also added a couple of other
like she's very fond of you, if you're
spending more time together. But
that's not the same as Love, is
it. She may be able to relax with
you, without the pressure and effort
of marriage around her. But ask yourself
.. Does she love you, or are you wishful
not - especially if they're spending
all this cash - but she might be.
might end up as friends - if you
can live with that - but with
all this fun, why should she come
don't say how old the kids are; the
longer this drags on, the more harm
could come to them. Especially if
there's no happy ending. Think
about the kids.
you want her back, knowing it
will never be the same again?