Is there a cure for Jealousy?
Is jealousy always a sign of some
other problem in a relationship? And,
if so, is there any way that an issue
like this can be resolved.
How about someone who is so insecure
that he worries about everyone that
you meet and talk to during the day
when he isn't around?
Is there any hope for this person
easy. There's two sorts of jealousy;
appropriate jealousy, and the inappropriate
kind. If it's appropriate, dealing
with the source can enable the healing
process to begin - but jealousy
is a breakdown in trust; rebuilding
that can be a long, slow process,
it may even be impossible.
jealousy is inappropriate, the key
question to ask yourself is, has it
always been this way, or has something
changed. What? Some people are more
prone to jealousy than others, and
the only way to manage it, is total
jealous people want to trust, and
you need to help them do so.
Never, ever, hide something "because
I knew you'd be upset" - being
upset is infinitely preferable to
being deceived, and that kind of deceit
can - and will - destroy a relationship.
the person can change, but only with
your total honesty and commitment.