Too shy to to succeed
I just want to ask how can I get
rid of my shy attitude. I'm always
nervous and if my teacher ask me a
question, even if i got an idea whats
the answer is, i feel like i dont
know the answer because I'm shy and
it will end up like i dont know the
Please help me.
I got lack of self confidence and
I dont know what to do. I'm also worried
that I might not get a good job in
the future and just end up a cleaner
because of this attitude of mine.
I also dont understand myself, I'm
always having day-dreaming and I just
can't help it. When I go to bed, I'm
always thinking about some things
before I go to sleep. I can't say
that I got a mind problem because
I know I'm in my right mind. please
tell me what is happening to me because
I really dont know what to do.
shy can seem very much like the end
of the world, and its effects get
shy is part of being you - which
does NOT mean you cannot do anything
about it, but it does mean that you
can't change overnight, and you can't
however unnoticed you feel, people
prefer quiet people to overbearing
bores, so don't change too much!
on the little things that you can
change, and you'll notice the
overall benefit. For example, stop
using "i" when you mean
making eye contact whenever you speak
- practice on friends and family,
not the school bully!
the main thing is to take control
of yourself. Make eye contact
with yourself in the mirror, daily,
and say "I know what I'm talking
about", "I'm as good as
..." and so on.
start answering the questions that
have an uncomplicated answer, avoid
the ones that need explanations.
join things where you can teach younger
people on a one-to-one basis (first
aid or something); that'll help your
Luck - and concentrate!