Why Do Men Fear Women?
Selena asked this interesting
Question
Dear
Selena,
If I
knew the answer, I'd have made my
fortune selling it on the internet!
I'm
sure there's all sorts of reasons,
few of them good, and fewer of them
useful. But they do - whatever they
tell you!I think it's largely about
power.
Only
100 years ago, few people lived beyond
35; for much of their adult lives,
women were pregnant or with dependant
children. Men, with much more choice
in life's options, effectively ruled.
Today,
women have many more choices, and
so a fair amount more control over
their lives (al things are relative!).
Men have not yet learned to cope with
this change in the balance of things.
And maybe never will.
Of course
there are exceptions, and in wealthy
societies (or wealthy classes in all
societies) women have usually had
as much power as men - but different.
Women
have long learned to get what they
want, without ever having to demand
it or fight for it - men, simple folk,
can't cope with that kind of power.
But ask
other men, you may well hear other
answers.
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