Trouble in Connecticut
My father has been offered a job
in North Carolina. We now live in
Connecticut. I am very happy for my
father but the problem is that I don't
know what to do for my living arrangements.
On one hand I could move to North
Carolina and start my life all over
again from scratch not knowing anyone.
Or I could move in with a friend and
still be close to all my friends.
I have lived in the same town for
21 years, and have some great friends.
But in the past year I have flunked
out of college do to my own stupidity
and I have had my heart broken in
the worst way by someone who I thought
was the one for me. Half of me wants
to stay in CT and the other have wants
you go or stay is your decision, and
so it should be - you'll have to live
with it. What you need to do is be
sure your not fooling yourself.
still heartbroken? Are you scared?
Of moving? Of not having your father
around? Do you think you have to move
to please your Dad? Are you worried
your Dad will say "Now you haven't
got your friends around, you can go
back to college and get it right"?
need to, so you must work through
these questions, and the others, and
come up with an answer you can
live with. Or toss a coin, I would!