I let myself be used
I am 16 year old female,
I seem to be able to say yes to almost
everything, the other day a couple of guys
asked me to have sex with them both. I
did not want to but something in side me
said yes to that crazy idea. I feel very
weird afterwards. I don't know how to say
no for once in a while. This is getting
out of hand - people seem to use me for
that knowing that I will always say yes.
Either you want to say yes - which might
be a problem, but might not be. Or you
don't want to say yes, but do. No-one can
help you if you can't make up your mind
what the problem is.
For now, just a few thoughts to help you
Are drugs or alcohol involved in your agreement
Do you like the 'couple of guys' - and
did you before?
Do you respect these guys - and do you
think they respect you?
Do you respect yourself? and finally, Do
you enjoy the sex?
Answer those questions sober, out loud,
in front of a mirror. Take note when you
cannot look yourself in the eye. Remember,
we all have choices.
Tried and Tested Advice